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This week we’re in for a treat because I’ve invited my friend Prasanta Verma to guest post for us! Though we’ve met in person before, I had the privilege of seeing Prasanta again briefly last week at the Festival of Faith and Writing:
It’s a special week for Prasanta, as her very first book just launched into the world!
Beyond Ethnic Loneliness: The Pain of Marginalization and the Path to Belonging
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Based on the topic of Prasanta’s book . . .
This week’s FMF writing prompt is: LONELY
Here’s Prasanta . . .Â
I think of the elderly woman in the grocery store, dragging her feet. She’s glancing around, smiling, taking her time inspecting a robust, leafy green cabbage. She pauses and waves at a little child while the child’s mother hurries her along. The elderly woman watches them scurry away.
I wonder about her and her story and hundreds like her. I also wonder about the teen who sits alone, lost in her own world, earbuds in ears. I consider the young exhausted mom. I think about the woman who parks her car, exits with bags in hand, hiding behind sunglasses.
I think of those in the middle, the middle-aged–who take care of both the young and the old–and who’s taking care of those sandwiched in the middle?
And I think of the one who is different, who looks different. Who feels misunderstood, invisible, forgotten. Simply because she looks different.
It’s been me. And perhaps it’s been you. Most, if not all of us, have felt lonely, and feel lonely regularly. Up to 60% of us actually.
Sometimes it’s because of how we look on the outside.
We know what it’s like to feel alone–yet we are still lonely. Where is the place for love to reach out and touch the loneliness? God didn’t design us to push our carts alone.
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Prasanta Verma was born under an Asian sun, raised in the Appalachian foothills, and resides in the Midwest.
She is a writer, poet, and public health professional, with devotionals published in Guideposts Pray a Word a Day and Guideposts Pray a Word for Hope, as well as published articles in Sojourners, (in)courage, The Indianapolis Review, The Curator, The Mudroom, Propel Women, The Truly Co., and others.
Beyond Ethnic Loneliness is her first book, releasing in April 2024. Prasanta loves chai, reading, and taking walks. Connect with her on Instagram @prasantaverma, her Substack newsletter, or her website.
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Beyond Ethnic Loneliness: The Pain of Marginalization and the Path to Belonging
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Join the link-up with your own five-minute freewrite below, then visit your link-up neighbor to read their post and leave an encouraging comment:Â
I never have felt lonely,
apart from all the rest,
and the reason for that’s only
that I’m the very best
at anything I try to do
(all others eat my dust),
and because I know it’s true,
it’s required that I must
reach out to those beneath my station,
assuage their doubts and fears,
and brush aside their protestation
(these aren’t REALLY tears!),
because I am the littles’ liege,
and I owe them, thus, noblesse oblige.
Four minutes of unbridled arrogance, but there you go.
“God didn’t design us to push our carts alone.” Those are true and powerful words! This was a wonderful word prompt and post. Thank you both!
Lonely if you ask me, is a feeling with me right now.
After the stress of the tough climb
after the sucess and it’s crazy high.
Whether I bask with happiness or burn with envy,
A certain time would come and those emotions leave me
With nothing in their wake and me feeling so lowly
My favorite hobbies right couldn’t even comfort me
The tears drop down with just me to wipe it
Then I remember the promise that God wouldn’t leave me
So I try to smile and say with a a little bit of cheery
You might be lonely but God still loves you
Yes, we were never meant to “go it alone.” Congratulations to Prasanta on her book! I’m sure it will encourage many. Blessings!
‘It is not good for man to be alone’ – God agrees. That’s what He created each-other for.
Your book sounds like one for our times! Congratulations.
Yes! Amen! Thank you … blessings on your book!
a good perspective to ponder. FMF12